3. A room of one’s own

This doesn’t mean a real, physical room where a man can build a man cave, although if you have the space for that, it would be a much-appreciated place for your man to go to when he just needs to chill, play some video games, or regroup.

What men are talking about when they say “something of their own” is really more about moments where they are doing something separate…a hobby, a passion, a sport or learning a new skill.

Good couples know that living in each other’s pockets is not a healthy way to keep the relationship fresh and vibrant.  So allow your man to take a weekend away to fish, kayak, or do whatever floats his boat. Let him train for a marathon, enroll in a woodworking class, or just have a night out with the boys from time to time.

These are not threats to your relationship.

To thecontrary,time apart makes you appreciate each other even more when you come back home to each other.

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