My second advice for women who were unfaithful, may be hard at times but it goes along with the process of recovery from your affair. Be accountable of your time away from your husband.  We’re not used to giving an account of where we are and what we’re doing.  Or, show proof we really were…

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1. Be Sure All Ties To The Other Man Are Broken. This may be obvious, but it is also likely going to be the hardest to follow through with in the beginning. Push past the withdrawal.  There is something called withdrawal that occurs, much like when an addict goes without their drug of choice.  It’s uncomfortable…

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Here is Jamie’s story: “I became a part of the AMA Facebook group in April 2019 when there were less than 100 members. At that time, I was in the midst of a NC period with AP, on the verge of yet another relapse and so horribly broken. Debbie Rose’s website [Aftermyaffair.com] was the first I stumbled…

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I hope this new Infidelity Recovery series will help you find the hope & strength to flee your affair and pursue a life of honor and integrity. PLEASE NOTE: The stories listed below are written by the women (and sometimes husbands) who were involved and only posted here with their permission. Their testimonies cannot be reprinted,…

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Men in FLRs often enjoy deviating from traditional gender roles.Operating outside of traditional roles reduces the pressure men feel to conform to society’s expectations. In FLR, they’re able to experience a loving relationship without feeling responsible for everything that happens. They can also enjoy letting someone else be in charge (both in and out of…

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People tend to judge non-traditional relationships, and that goes for FLRs, too. It’s fine to tell people you trust about your relationship dynamic if that’s what you want to do, but they may voice their negative opinions about it. At the end of the day, though, it’s your relationship—all that matters is what works for…

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