The benefits may become more obvious over time, especially once you get into the swing of things. If it starts feeling like the dynamic isn’t beneficial for both partners, though, it’s important to speak up and discuss that. Ask questions like:
- How has FLR improved your life? Do you feel happier or healthier than before?
- How would you rate your satisfaction with FLR on a scale of 1 to 10?
- Are there aspects of our arrangement that feel uncomfortable or awkward?
- Are there things that you’d like to add (or take away) to make the arrangement more beneficial?