Once you embark on an FLR, it falls on both partners to monitor what’s working and what isn’t. It’s normal for an FLR to evolve over time, and nothing is set in stone. Pick a regular time (perhaps weekly or monthly) to sit down and discuss what’s working and tweak any elements that don’t feel quite right.[9]
- Remember: even though the woman is dominant in the relationship, both partners have equal input in the FLR arrangement. Rules can (and should) be changed whenever someone is uncomfortable.[10]
