Tag: Spiritual Help

Some generational (family) sins that lead to deep and debilitating soul ties are:

  • adultery
  • incest, molestation
  • viewing, sharing, making or selling pornography
  • divination, fortune telling, prediction, intuitive reading
  • visiting counterfeit holy people: false prophets, psychics, tarot, energy or shamanic healers, root workers, astrologers etc.
  • sorcery / meditations / chants / spiritual methods or tools (crystals, incense, prayer wheel etc.)
  • cultism (fandom – ex: celebrity, Disney, music, sports; cultural cultism – fashion, trends, movements; family or religious cults; cult of intellectualism; collector of paraphernalia; etc.)
  • idolatry of relationship, romance, lust, sex, physique, status
  • seeking high emotional states, trance, music-induced escape, drug escape, chasing bliss, ecstatic worship or spiritual experiences
  • desire for priestly self concept; desire to be adored, idolized & highly regarded; addicted to the power of one’s own charisma
  • affections for specific objects, places, substances, rituals; tendency for nostalgia
  • returning to the profane things you have previously walked away from
  • dabbling in secret shame; concupiscence (pursuit of what is scandalous or prohibited)
  • pronouncing oaths of loyalty & paying membership dues to churches, organizations, brotherhoods, fraternities, sororities or societies


YOU MIGHT SEE SOME OF THESE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE, BUT RIGHT NOW, LET’S LOOK ONLY AT YOUR RELATIVES.

Do you see any of the above in your grandparents, parents, step parents, in-laws, aunts or uncles? 

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BEFORE YOU BREAK SOUL TIES, EXAMINE PRIOR GENERATIONS

Christians have not been taught properly in the church about soul ties. If you have soul ties that cause you pain and confusion, it probably started in prior generations. Soul ties form out of inherited generational curses and unclean spirits passed down the family line through sin.

(Lamentations 5:7) “Our fathers have sinned, and are not; and we have borne their iniquities.”

(Exodus 20:5b) “… visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me.”

(Deuteronomy 27-28) Lists a number of curses that one may experience because of disobeying the laws of God (sins, failures, poverty, indebtedness, diseases, family breakups, etc.)

(Deuteronomy 28:15) “But it shall come to pass, if thou wilt not hearken unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe to do all his commandments and his statutes which I command thee this day; that all these curses shall come upon thee, and overtake thee:”

(Galatians 3:10-14) “For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them. But that no man is justified by the law in the sight of God, it is evident: for, The just shall live by faith. And the law is not of faith: but, The man that doeth them shall live in them. Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree: That the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.”

Inherited sin, our own sin, and victimization opens doors to the destructive agencies of satan. Satan fully intends to steal, kill and destroy Christians. He does this through the open doors of unrepented sin and unhealed trauma.

Painful relational ties to others are not of God. They are yokes that become painful, heavy and destructive bondages. These emotional, sexual, and even mystical ties erode a Christian’s desire for righteousness and obedience to the Word of God. They bring shame, loss, grief and drama to a person’s life. Their fruits are corrupted hearts, divorce and broken relationships with children.

God allows this so that we can learn, repent and return to Him! Let’s get you back into alignment with the One who died for you!

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23 SYMPTOMS OF UNGODLY SOUL TIES

The following symptoms signal a need for deliverance from ungodly soul ties. The more symptoms you have, the more urgent the need.

If you have any of these, please seek deliverance ministry in addition to praying this prayer.

An ungodly soul tie(s) will lead to things like…

  • …increased suffering, nostalgia, daydreaming, fantasizing, struggle, or doubt,
  • …new or increased problems and division/coldness in your marriage,
  • …losing touch with your children,
  • …if unmarried, extended periods of singleness
  • …feelings of great spiritual love coupled with increasing lust, unbiblical spiritual practices, and other sin,
  • …being led by serendipity and the magical, not the Word of God,
  • …getting more and more deeply drawn into “love and light” spiritism, yoga, meditation or other spiritual practice
  • …divining spiritual information through psychics, astrologers, tarot readers, etc.
  • …living more and more isolated or having a secret life,
  • …committing adultery, watching pornography and/or having abortion,
  • …experiencing very vivid but strange dreams or visions,
  • …feeling movements, vibrations or sensations in the body from unseen cause,
  • …feeling unable or unwilling to disconnect from an object of affection, whether it be a co-worker, boss, mate, friend, psychologist, high status person or family member,
  • …can’t move forward in the respectable ways you had hoped, but instead descend into secret diversions and immoral plans that are spiritually or emotionally defended
  • …feeling, hearing or seeing strange presences around you,
  • …feeling uncommonly strong sexual urges, feeling sexual spirits or having sexual dreams,
  • …strange bouts of anger or rage that come at unpredictable times, but think of self as loving
  • …acting out in adolescent, jealous, desperate, or obsessive ways or turning completely cold and unfeeling,
  • …shameful demotions or sudden unwanted changes of job, place/city of residence, habits
  • …dedicated to loving the object of affection “unconditionally” despite their poor treatment, disrespect, rejection, their lack of care for your children, their being married to someone else, their lack of self respect, their lack of good morals, ethics and character, etc.
  • …being drawn away from your faith in the true Jesus Christ
  • …feeling indifference or disgust towards reading/believing the bible (a person in a soul tie can still act religious or highly spiritual)
  • …hearing unbiblical “instructions from God” that reinforce the isolation

Even if you have ALL of these symptoms above, you can be FULLY delivered from all of them as a born again believer in Jesus Christ.

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Deliverance From Soul Ties & Inordinate Affections

Who can be harmed by soul ties?

Do you need deliverance from soul ties? Even if you’re a confessing Christian, you can be negatively affected by soul ties. Many believers are experiencing confusing bonds to others which seem spiritual in ways, but that ultimately lead to pain and sin. What is going on in the body of Christ?

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A Shape-Shifting Sin

Pride deserves to die, but it is hard to spot and even harder to kill. Pride is a slippery sin because it is a shape-shifter. Jonathan Edwards said pride is “the most hidden, secret, and deceitful of all sins.” Let me give you an example. Here is a conversation that I might have with myself after a meeting at church:

“That meeting went really well. I think the turning point might have been when I asked that question which no one had thought to ask before. Wait a minute! That was such a prideful thought. It sounds like I am taking credit for the meeting going well. I am such a prideful person. I hate my pride.”

Meanwhile three seconds later, “I fight pride pretty hard. I’m glad that I caught that initial prideful thought. I wonder if other people are as aware of their pride and fight it as hard as I do. Wait a minute! It just happened again. I am taking pride in my awareness of pride. O, deliver me from this body of death, Lord Jesus! Thank you God that you give us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

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Think of Yourself Less Fighting Pride’s Preoccupation with Me Resource by Jason Meyer

I am very qualified to speak on pride because I am so proud. I hate my pride, but what I take even more seriously is how God hates it so much more.

Pride is our greatest enemy because it makes God our enemy — an almighty opponent. “God opposes the proud” (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5). Why? What makes pride so singularly repulsive to God is the way that pride contends for supremacy with God himself. Pride is not one sin among many, but a sin in a class by itself. Other sins lead the sinner further from God, but pride is particularly heinous in that it attempts to elevate the sinner above God.

Pride is not just a sin, but a sinful mother — a sinful orientation that gives birth to more sins. For example, pride can lead to lying. You tell a lie because you are too proud to admit you were wrong or you did something wrong. But the problem is so much bigger. Pride doesn’t just tell lies; it is a lie.

Why? Pride is self-obsession; pride is preoccupation with ourselves. Therefore, it is a lie about reality. It says I am worth thinking about all the time. It is an orientation that wrongly assumes that everything revolves around us.

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But some soul ties are unholy. Instead of being based on a holy relationship, they are based on unholy relationships–or based on situations that keep you in chains.

And what started off badly–the relationship–doesn’t get any better just because a bond forms.

For example, let’s say you dated someone who abused you. You really loved them, but they weren’t willing to change, so you found the courage to end the relationship. You try to move on, but you just can’t get that person out of your mind.

Or maybe …

You used to be married, but your spouse cheated on you and left years ago. You’ve forgiven them, and you really meant it when you did. You don’t harbor any animosity toward your ex. However, you still can’t stop thinking about them. You haven’t been able to get free from the memories of what they did, even though you’ve tried.

Or maybe …

You used to be bullied a lot when you were growing up. In the adult world, people no longer bully you; but you still catch yourself shying away from people, thinking that they will. You feel like the bullying happened just yesterday, even though it was years ago. And like the situation above, you may have even forgiven them–but you still suffer from the damage inflicted on you.

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What is a soul tie?

A soul tie is a spiritual phenomena that happens when your soul (your mind, will, and emotions) become linked to another person. Some soul ties are good. For example:

  • The loving bond between a godly parent and a child is a holy soul tie. God designed the family so that mothers and fathers and children would be connected to each other in love.
  • Another holy soul tie is the relationship between a husband and his wife–one man and one woman, bound together in holy matrimony. When a man and a woman get married, the Bible says that God has joined them together. The two become one flesh, and they are simply two halves of one whole. Husband and wife become one.
  • Another example of a godly soul tie could be a godly relationship between a parishioner and his or her pastor. The parishioner can love, honor, and serve the pastor as his/her spiritual leader (always making sure that everything lines up with God’s Word first, of course).

In that situation, with the pastor and his/her sheep, the parishioner can have a real fondness or even brotherly love for the pastor, and the pastor appreciates the parishioner and has a fatherly love for that person. That kind of relationship is a good thing. God’s Word tells us to love and honor our pastors.

In all these situations, the bond that forms between the people in these holy relationships is a godly thing. It edifies, encourages, and lifts up both people who have the connection with one another.

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How To Break Unholy Soul Ties (with FREE Printable Guide)

Have you ever tried to stop thinking about someone or something, but you just haven’t been able to? Have you tried and tried to forget about that ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, ex-husband, ex-wife, or the friend who did you wrong … to no avail?

Have you ever gotten frustrated with yourself because you haven’t been able to just move on … even though you’ve tried so hard?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you may have a soul tie.

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6. Surround Yourself with Positive People

And lastly, surround yourself with positive people who see the best in you and who bring out the best in you. Honestly, this was a very crucial step in my own healing process. It wasn’t until I emptied my life of pretty much everyone and everything that I was not only able to root out all the bad stuff, but really grow in all the good stuff as well.

Yes, this is very difficult to do, especially if you have friends and family who are toxic. But coming from someone who gave up every single friendship I had prior to this point of healing – it was worth it. Yes, sometimes I miss some of my old friends – they were wonderful people who did nothing wrong – but it was what I had to do to find healing, and I’m so glad I did.

If you’ve been living with pain, shame and regret over choices you’ve made in your past, let me tell you – it does NOT have to be this way. I know because I’ve been there, but I’m not there anymore.

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