Category: Spiritual Help

23 SYMPTOMS OF UNGODLY SOUL TIES

The following symptoms signal a need for deliverance from ungodly soul ties. The more symptoms you have, the more urgent the need.

If you have any of these, please seek deliverance ministry in addition to praying this prayer.

An ungodly soul tie(s) will lead to things like…

  • …increased suffering, nostalgia, daydreaming, fantasizing, struggle, or doubt,
  • …new or increased problems and division/coldness in your marriage,
  • …losing touch with your children,
  • …if unmarried, extended periods of singleness
  • …feelings of great spiritual love coupled with increasing lust, unbiblical spiritual practices, and other sin,
  • …being led by serendipity and the magical, not the Word of God,
  • …getting more and more deeply drawn into “love and light” spiritism, yoga, meditation or other spiritual practice
  • …divining spiritual information through psychics, astrologers, tarot readers, etc.
  • …living more and more isolated or having a secret life,
  • …committing adultery, watching pornography and/or having abortion,
  • …experiencing very vivid but strange dreams or visions,
  • …feeling movements, vibrations or sensations in the body from unseen cause,
  • …feeling unable or unwilling to disconnect from an object of affection, whether it be a co-worker, boss, mate, friend, psychologist, high status person or family member,
  • …can’t move forward in the respectable ways you had hoped, but instead descend into secret diversions and immoral plans that are spiritually or emotionally defended
  • …feeling, hearing or seeing strange presences around you,
  • …feeling uncommonly strong sexual urges, feeling sexual spirits or having sexual dreams,
  • …strange bouts of anger or rage that come at unpredictable times, but think of self as loving
  • …acting out in adolescent, jealous, desperate, or obsessive ways or turning completely cold and unfeeling,
  • …shameful demotions or sudden unwanted changes of job, place/city of residence, habits
  • …dedicated to loving the object of affection “unconditionally” despite their poor treatment, disrespect, rejection, their lack of care for your children, their being married to someone else, their lack of self respect, their lack of good morals, ethics and character, etc.
  • …being drawn away from your faith in the true Jesus Christ
  • …feeling indifference or disgust towards reading/believing the bible (a person in a soul tie can still act religious or highly spiritual)
  • …hearing unbiblical “instructions from God” that reinforce the isolation

Even if you have ALL of these symptoms above, you can be FULLY delivered from all of them as a born again believer in Jesus Christ.

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Deliverance From Soul Ties & Inordinate Affections

Who can be harmed by soul ties?

Do you need deliverance from soul ties? Even if you’re a confessing Christian, you can be negatively affected by soul ties. Many believers are experiencing confusing bonds to others which seem spiritual in ways, but that ultimately lead to pain and sin. What is going on in the body of Christ?

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A Shape-Shifting Sin

Pride deserves to die, but it is hard to spot and even harder to kill. Pride is a slippery sin because it is a shape-shifter. Jonathan Edwards said pride is “the most hidden, secret, and deceitful of all sins.” Let me give you an example. Here is a conversation that I might have with myself after a meeting at church:

“That meeting went really well. I think the turning point might have been when I asked that question which no one had thought to ask before. Wait a minute! That was such a prideful thought. It sounds like I am taking credit for the meeting going well. I am such a prideful person. I hate my pride.”

Meanwhile three seconds later, “I fight pride pretty hard. I’m glad that I caught that initial prideful thought. I wonder if other people are as aware of their pride and fight it as hard as I do. Wait a minute! It just happened again. I am taking pride in my awareness of pride. O, deliver me from this body of death, Lord Jesus! Thank you God that you give us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

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Think of Yourself Less Fighting Pride’s Preoccupation with Me Resource by Jason Meyer

I am very qualified to speak on pride because I am so proud. I hate my pride, but what I take even more seriously is how God hates it so much more.

Pride is our greatest enemy because it makes God our enemy — an almighty opponent. “God opposes the proud” (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5). Why? What makes pride so singularly repulsive to God is the way that pride contends for supremacy with God himself. Pride is not one sin among many, but a sin in a class by itself. Other sins lead the sinner further from God, but pride is particularly heinous in that it attempts to elevate the sinner above God.

Pride is not just a sin, but a sinful mother — a sinful orientation that gives birth to more sins. For example, pride can lead to lying. You tell a lie because you are too proud to admit you were wrong or you did something wrong. But the problem is so much bigger. Pride doesn’t just tell lies; it is a lie.

Why? Pride is self-obsession; pride is preoccupation with ourselves. Therefore, it is a lie about reality. It says I am worth thinking about all the time. It is an orientation that wrongly assumes that everything revolves around us.

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But some soul ties are unholy. Instead of being based on a holy relationship, they are based on unholy relationships–or based on situations that keep you in chains.

And what started off badly–the relationship–doesn’t get any better just because a bond forms.

For example, let’s say you dated someone who abused you. You really loved them, but they weren’t willing to change, so you found the courage to end the relationship. You try to move on, but you just can’t get that person out of your mind.

Or maybe …

You used to be married, but your spouse cheated on you and left years ago. You’ve forgiven them, and you really meant it when you did. You don’t harbor any animosity toward your ex. However, you still can’t stop thinking about them. You haven’t been able to get free from the memories of what they did, even though you’ve tried.

Or maybe …

You used to be bullied a lot when you were growing up. In the adult world, people no longer bully you; but you still catch yourself shying away from people, thinking that they will. You feel like the bullying happened just yesterday, even though it was years ago. And like the situation above, you may have even forgiven them–but you still suffer from the damage inflicted on you.

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What is a soul tie?

A soul tie is a spiritual phenomena that happens when your soul (your mind, will, and emotions) become linked to another person. Some soul ties are good. For example:

  • The loving bond between a godly parent and a child is a holy soul tie. God designed the family so that mothers and fathers and children would be connected to each other in love.
  • Another holy soul tie is the relationship between a husband and his wife–one man and one woman, bound together in holy matrimony. When a man and a woman get married, the Bible says that God has joined them together. The two become one flesh, and they are simply two halves of one whole. Husband and wife become one.
  • Another example of a godly soul tie could be a godly relationship between a parishioner and his or her pastor. The parishioner can love, honor, and serve the pastor as his/her spiritual leader (always making sure that everything lines up with God’s Word first, of course).

In that situation, with the pastor and his/her sheep, the parishioner can have a real fondness or even brotherly love for the pastor, and the pastor appreciates the parishioner and has a fatherly love for that person. That kind of relationship is a good thing. God’s Word tells us to love and honor our pastors.

In all these situations, the bond that forms between the people in these holy relationships is a godly thing. It edifies, encourages, and lifts up both people who have the connection with one another.

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How To Break Unholy Soul Ties (with FREE Printable Guide)

Have you ever tried to stop thinking about someone or something, but you just haven’t been able to? Have you tried and tried to forget about that ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, ex-husband, ex-wife, or the friend who did you wrong … to no avail?

Have you ever gotten frustrated with yourself because you haven’t been able to just move on … even though you’ve tried so hard?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you may have a soul tie.

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6. Surround Yourself with Positive People

And lastly, surround yourself with positive people who see the best in you and who bring out the best in you. Honestly, this was a very crucial step in my own healing process. It wasn’t until I emptied my life of pretty much everyone and everything that I was not only able to root out all the bad stuff, but really grow in all the good stuff as well.

Yes, this is very difficult to do, especially if you have friends and family who are toxic. But coming from someone who gave up every single friendship I had prior to this point of healing – it was worth it. Yes, sometimes I miss some of my old friends – they were wonderful people who did nothing wrong – but it was what I had to do to find healing, and I’m so glad I did.

If you’ve been living with pain, shame and regret over choices you’ve made in your past, let me tell you – it does NOT have to be this way. I know because I’ve been there, but I’m not there anymore.

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5. Walk in Truth

Of course, feeling forgiven and making positive changes going forward isn’t always easy. That’s why you must commit to walking in truth.

What sins do you struggle to avoid? What Scriptural truths do you struggle to believe? Find relevant Scripture, write it down, memorize it, and refer to it constantly. Meditate on it day and night until it becomes a part of you and you start living according to it.

Are you struggling with guilt and shame over your past? Memorize Romans 8:1, which says, “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

Repeat it to yourself every time those feelings try to creep back in again. Say it out loud if you need to. Write it on your hand if you need to. Spray paint it on your walls if you need to. Whatever it takes for you to be able to proclaim it victoriously.

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4. Forgive Yourself

If God, who is perfect, pure and holy can forgive you – so can you. You are not allowed to hold yourself to a higher standard than God does (as though you were a more righteous judge), and you don’t want to say that Jesus’s blood is insufficient for your sins (it’s not). When God declares you forgiven, you are forgiven. Period. The end.

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