Tag: Self-Help

If you prayed that prayer, then Jesus just broke the unholy soul ties off of your life.

You are very likely to feel different after praying that prayer. I often have had people tell me they can sense their freedom–that they suddenly feel disassociated (in a good way) from the people who have hurt them.

If you feel suddenly disassociated from those people, that is a VERY good thing! That is what freedom feels like, beloved. It feels whole and healthy just between you and Jesus–no other people needed. That is as it should be; you should feel whole and complete in Jesus alone. You want to be able to leave those people behind.

And you will find that, without the soul tie, you will be able to move on and stop thinking about that person.

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So pray this prayer to break soul ties that you don’t want off of your life

“Dear Heavenly Father, I come before You in Jesus’ name. Thank You for buying me back from sin with the blood of Jesus. Jesus, thank You for dying on the cross for me–and thank You for being resurrected to life again so that I could live a victorious, powerful life in You. 

Dear Jesus, You paid the price with Your own blood for me to be free in every way. So, I receive Your gift of freedom. I choose to be completely free today.

Jesus, it is Your name and Your blood that make me free, and I thank You for that. You said that he/she whom the Son sets free shall be free indeed. So thank You that You’re doing the work as I agree with Your Word and obey You.

So Father God, in the name of Jesus, I plead the blood of Jesus over every unholy soul tie that is attached to or from me to any other person. And in the name of Jesus, with His blood, I (CLAP=>)BREAK every unholy soul tie right now.

In the name of Jesus, let every part of me that has been attached to someone else return to me, washed clean with the blood of Jesus, right now. And let every part of anyone else that has been attached to me be broken off and return to them, right now, in the name of Jesus.

Jesus, thank You for setting me free. I plead Your blood over my body, spirit, soul, mind, will, and emotions. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit afresh and anew. Please help me not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of my mind in Your Word. Help me to wash my mind in Your Word every day, Jesus, and help me receive Your truth in all things.

Thank You, Father God. Thank You, Lord Jesus. Thank You, Holy Spirit. I love You, and I give You all the praise. In Jesus’  name, amen.”

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You break soul ties with the blood of Jesus.

The blood of Jesus cleanses us and washes us from all evil things. Jesus’ blood is the most powerful force in the universe, and NOTHING can stand up to it.

Not even an ungodly soul tie. 🙂

So what do you do? You pray. I’ve placed a sample prayer below. If you’d like to break ungodly soul ties off your life, pray this prayer OUT LOUD.

Important: In the place where the prayer below says “I break every unholy soul tie right now,” and when you say the word “BREAK,” I want you to clap once when you say that word, okay? The physical sound of the clap actually startles your brain out of its old thought pattern and into a new thought pattern. It’s a very cool thing based in simple, high-school-level neuroscience, and you can actually feel the old pattern breaking.

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Myth #7: If My $exual Past is Less than Pretty, I’m “Damaged Goods”

There are so many ways that this can play out, but none of them are true.

No matter what has happened in your past, the Bible tells us that we are a new creation in Christ. The old has gone, the new has come! You don’t have to walk in shame or condemnation anymore. You can walk in freedom!

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Myth #6: $ex is Just Another Chore to Cross off the To-Do List

This goes along with a lot of what I’ve said already, but it bears repeating–$ex is not a chore. It’s supposed to be and enjoyable! Yes, take care of your husband, but not just out of obligation. It’s something fun for both of you to do together! Don’t let lack of time stand in your way either! It’s hard to find time for romance with your children are little, but it can be done!

Again, if you struggle to get in the mood or you don’t really enjoy $ex when the time comes, the Boost Your Libido course can absolutely help with this too.

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Myth #5: $ex Has to Look a Certain Way

While all of us do have our own preferences for things we like and don’t like, I’d really encourage you not to get trapped that $ex has to look one specific way or meet a certain checklist of qualifications to “count.”

As women, our bodies change a LOT over the course of our lifetimes, especially throughout the childbearing years and then once menopause kicks in. So it only makes sense that $ex is going to look and feel different depending on the season of your life you’re in.

If something hurts or you’re experiencing significant hurdles, absolutely see a doctor. But if $ex is difficult for a season (due to dryness after childbirth or because you’re not in the mood for $ex, for example), that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you! It’s just a part of life. Sometimes $ex is great, other times, not so much. It’s totally normal.

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Myth #4: $ex is All About Fun and Physical Release

While God did create $ex to feel good, it isn’t JUST about feeling good. $ex also creates “soul ties,” or an actual spiritual connection between the two individuals. 

Within the context of marriage, these soul ties are great! They help us to grow in intimacy and love each other more, even we have bills to pay or our husbands do things we disagree with. When we still have leftover soul ties to people we aren’t married to, however, they becomes a serious problem, as they give satan a foothold from which he can attack our marriages, our intimacy, and our sex lives. 

Even if your husband watches porn (either currently or before you were married), this can create baggage and soul ties you’ll need to work through/break.

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Myth #3. $ex is Just for Him

All men love $ex, and women just have to grin and bear it? That’s what a lot of selfish guys are happy to let you believe, but it’s not Biblical. God created $ex to be enjoyed by both the man AND the woman, and it’s okay to enjoy it! You’re supposed to!

In fact, did you know that God made one part of your body with the SOLE purpose of providing $exual pleasure? Why would He give it to you if He didn’t expect you and your husband to take full advantage of it?? $ex is for you too! Your husband will enjoy it more if you let yourself enjoy it!

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Myth #2. Marriage Fixes Everything

Of course, just because God created $ex within marriage to be good, that doesn’t mean $ex is automatically going to be wonderful as soon as you’re married.

If you experimented sexually before marriage (even if it was with your husband), you could have inadvertently created $exual baggage you’ll then bring into your marriage. Or even if you waited until marriage, you might have other hurts, fears or hang-ups that get in your way.

Plus, you might be brand new and just plain not know what you’re doing yet. Every person likes different things, and it takes a lot of time and practice to really reach the level of intimacy God created us to have. (Those these Christian $ex tips can help shorten the learning curve!)

So if $ex isn’t awesome right off the bat — that’s okay! Sometimes there are obstacles you have to unroot and take care of first, and plus, it just takes some practice. Being one with someone isn’t easy. You have to work at it! So don’t feel bad if it isn’t all unicorns and rainbows right away.

Marriage isn’t a magic pill; it’s a life-long commitment and good $ex / intimacy does take work.

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Myth #1. $ex is Wrong/Dirty

Sure, some of the ways $ex is practiced today are wrong or dirty, but $ex as a whole is certainly not wrong or dirty. $ex was God’s idea. It’s God’s gift to us. There’s even a whole book of the Bible devoted to celebrating the love between a young man and his new bride, and it’s seriously graphic!

“How beautiful you are and how pleasing,
my love, with your delights!
Your stature is like that of the palm,
and your breasts like clusters of fruit.
I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree;
I will take hold of its fruit.’”

–Song of Songs 7:6-8a

In the Old Testament, new husbands weren’t allowed to go to war during the first year of their marriage because they had to stay home and “please their wives.”

“If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married.” –Deuteronomy 24:5

 

And in the New Testament, married couples were encouraged NOT to stop having sex.

“Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” –1 Corinthians 7:5

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