Of course, just because God created $ex within marriage to be good, that doesn’t mean $ex is automatically going to be wonderful as soon as you’re married.
If you experimented sexually before marriage (even if it was with your husband), you could have inadvertently created $exual baggage you’ll then bring into your marriage. Or even if you waited until marriage, you might have other hurts, fears or hang-ups that get in your way.
Plus, you might be brand new and just plain not know what you’re doing yet. Every person likes different things, and it takes a lot of time and practice to really reach the level of intimacy God created us to have. (Those these Christian $ex tips can help shorten the learning curve!)
So if $ex isn’t awesome right off the bat — that’s okay! Sometimes there are obstacles you have to unroot and take care of first, and plus, it just takes some practice. Being one with someone isn’t easy. You have to work at it! So don’t feel bad if it isn’t all unicorns and rainbows right away.
Marriage isn’t a magic pill; it’s a life-long commitment and good $ex / intimacy does take work.