These people are also known for being kind to everyone. They are careful never to be rude to anyone. It is because they rather be offended than be the ones to offend others. Most of the time, they are gentle and patient with people.
Category: Spiritual
Kind : Always Grateful
A humble person does not forget to say “thank you” even for small things. They thank those who open doors or give them a glass of water. Also, they thank waiters, taxi drivers, and even sales ladies for serving them.
Serves Others
Instead, they like serving other people. Service makes them happy, especially when done to their loved ones. They also love helping those who are in need without expecting anything in return.
Does Not Demand Service or Attention
Humble people are not self-entitled. They do not demand recognition. Moreover, they are not comfortable being served by others. They do not feel offended if they are not acknowledged.
Initiates Reconciliation
Apologizing first is their way of initiating reconciliation. Relationships are important to them, so they can willingly set aside their pride just to save them.
Apologizes First Even if Others’ Fault
Another remarkable characteristic of this kind of person is their willingness to apologize first in a misunderstanding. Even if it is not really their fault, they will humbly say “sorry” just to resolve the conflict as soon as possible.
Indirect Attacks
19. Talks Behind Your Back
If you find out that this person backstabs you, it is clear that they want you destroyed. They love to gossip about you to other people, enjoying your stained reputation.
20. Plays the Victim
If you have a conflict with this person, expect them to play the victim. They will try to gain sympathy from your boss or colleagues. This individual will blame you for everything and avoid the details that will show their wrong side.
21. Tries to Get Your Friends to Their Side
This person will also try to isolate you. If you have good friends in the office or organization, they will try to get them from you too. This person will hang out with them, treat them a lot, and give them gifts. They will also try to get their trust.
22. Gaslights You
During the confrontation, this individual will resort to gaslighting. They will try to make you feel responsible for how they treat you. They want you to feel about yourself and be guilty about how this person feels.
23. Tries to Influence Others’ View of You
If someone wants to destroy you, they will start with your reputation. They will try to manipulate how others think of view. Whenever talking about you, they will pretend to sound concerned, but in reality, they are already leading these people into some speculations about you.
Obsession and Jealousy
12. Stalks You on Social Media
One of the reasons why someone wants to destroy you is insecurity. They cannot accept that you are doing better than them. The hate they feel will cause them to be obsessed with proving that they are greater than you. One of its manifestations is stalking you on social media. They want to be updated with your life because they look forward to seeing you fail.
13. Wants to Talk About You All the Time
Another hint that a person is obsessed with seeing you fall is their interest in talking about your life. They like asking others about your personal life, plans, relationships, and even acknowledgments. They want to be updated with your life. Probably, a colleague has noticed this and let you know about their observation.
14. Copies Your Style
You can also tell that a person is obsessed with competing with you because they tend to copy your fashion style. Of course, they will add or remove something to make it less noticeable. And they will always come up with a more glamorous version.
15. Wants Everything You Have
This person is not only mimicking your fashion style but seems to want everything you want. From the car model to the desk organizer design, they seem to copy yours. You can tell they are also after your job position or organization role. If you are in a relationship and this individual knows your partner, this person may even try to flirt with your beau.
16. Observes You All the Time
How can you tell if a person is observing you a lot? They know your mistakes, even the small ones you thought no one noticed. Also, they clearly remember your statements, especially those that can be used against you.
17. Is Not Happy When You Achieve Something
Aside from downplaying your accomplishments, this person is obviously unhappy with them. Expect them to be absent during your celebration parties, and they will not even congratulate you.
18. Always Trying to Prove They are Better Than You
Another sign that a person wants to ruin you is how they always want to prove that they are better than you. Whenever someone praises you for your accomplishments or ideas, this insecure person will find a way to talk about their ‘better’ suggestions and ‘greater’ achievements.
Always in the Opposition
7. Never Acknowledges the Good Things You Do
You know that this person does not like you if they cannot compliment you for your good deeds. Whenever you excel at something, they will never congratulate you for it. Worse, they might even focus on minor, irrelevant flaws.
8. Always Opposes Your Suggestions or Ideas
Have you noticed that this person never agrees with any of your suggestions? They will never buy your ideas no matter how much you give your best in presenting them. Sometimes they can tell you why they do not like it, but there are times when they simply shrug.
9. Downplays Your Success
Aside from not acknowledging your victories, this person will always downplay them. For this individual, those are small wins, and nothing is special about them. This is a typical trait of someone who wants to destroy you.
10. Supports Those Who Oppose You
Factions and conflicts are not uncommon in any organization. What is surprising is there is this particular colleague who will always join forces with those you clash with.
11. Never Defends You
In connection to no. 10, you cannot expect this person to defend you from criticism. In fact, they may even join them in ranting against you.
Healthy Boundaries v. Self-Care
Healthy boundaries also involve taking care of oneself. Each partner should be responsible for their own emotional and physical well-being, and should not rely on the other person to meet all their needs. Taking care of oneself can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling relationship.
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