We cannot be perfect every day.
No matter how we try, we can’t help messing up on some days. We really wish to be loving and sensitive, and caring every day, but sometimes we can’t help being human.
Sometimes we forget to take out the trash, and other times we leave our sweaty pants on the bedroom floor after jogging.
That doesn’t mean we are deliberately sitting back, not trying to be a better version of ourselves.
No, it only means that we are still humans and not angels. You can always correct us lovingly, but we hate it when you keep harping about our flaws.